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About TJ

Remembering TJ

TJ's life was more than one moment. This page is a place to remember who he was, the people who loved him, and the purpose his mother is building in his memory.

Who TJ was

A life full of light

TJ smiling warmly at the camera
TJ — remembered with love

Spontaneous from the time he learned to walk

Welcoming to people and comfortable meeting strangers

Dependable and protective of his family

Skilled with technology and electronics

A talented artist

His life in photos

Moments worth remembering

TJ as a young child with a big, bright smile
That unforgettable smile
TJ dressed up in a navy suit with a red tie, smiling
All dressed up
TJ and his mother sitting close together on a couch, both smiling
TJ and his mother
TJ lying back in a gray shirt, smiling at the camera
Relaxed and happy
TJ standing outside during a family trip to Krotz Springs, Louisiana, in August 2023
A family trip — August 2023

From TJ's family

A Mother's Story

This story includes a mother's account of suicide loss and grief. You can read a shorter introduction or continue to the full story.

Why TJ's Light exists

Turning love and loss into support for others

TJ's Light was born from a mother's love for her son and her wish that other people and families would not have to carry their struggles in silence. The foundation seeks to make room for honest conversation, connect people with resources, and help TJ's memory continue to make a difference.

Our mission

TJ's Light creates a compassionate community where people can speak openly about mental and emotional struggles, find support, and know they are not alone.

"No one should feel ashamed to say, 'I'm not okay.' And no one should have to struggle in silence."

From TJ's family

A verse the family holds close

"He heals the brokenhearted."

Psalm 147:3

Faith is part of this family's story. It is never a substitute for professional or crisis support — if you are struggling, please also reach out to the resources on our Get Support page.

Keep TJ's light shining

His life mattered. His story matters. His family hopes that sharing his memory will help someone else reach out, listen, or find support.